The wise man asked, "What kind of people live where you want to move from?"
The man said, "They are mean, cruel, rude."
The wise man replied, "The same kind of people live in this village too."
After some time another traveler came by and asked the same question and the wise man asked him, "What kind of people live where you want to move from?"
And the traveler replied, "The people are very kind, courteous, polite and good."
The wise man said, "You will find the same kind of people here too."
Generally we see the world not the way it is but the way we are. Most of the time, other people's behavior is a reaction to our own.